Sex therapy could also be entitled massage and if the massage is an Erotic Massage it may in fact be a part of sex therapy.And when someone is getting an Erotic Massage they may be in fact experiencing the beginnings of sexual intercourse with the masseuse who may also be their sexual partner. This may be taking place at home or may also being performed at a house of massage.
If the home is where you are being given the pleasure of an Erotic Massage then the person who is giving you the massage should decide on an area of the home where they can insure you are totally relaxed and also one where no one can interrupt either one of you.It should also be a place where you can be resting on the massage table or even a very firm bed. The giver should be able to freely move around you as they massage you. The main thing of importance here is that you should be very comfortable. This should be a mutual act with both parties consenting to the performance.
The next task is that you will have to be comfortable so you will have pillows to rise up your neck or other parts of the body. Several towels would be handy if you feel the need to wipe off the sweat.
It would be lovely if your partner performing the massage would give you a choice of oils which they would use massage the body so you did not experience any sore spots from too much rubbing on raw skin. An especially erotic feeling is when that scented oil is also warmed.
In order to create a mood you should have some background music which could be your choice or if you both share the same taste something that you both enjoy.
Whatever the purpose of this Erotic Massage you want to be relaxed and comfortable in your role as the person receiving the massage.It could be a preface to sexual intercourse or simply a way to get relaxed after a hard week at work.
When you are comfortable and your masseuse has everything set up to your mutual satisfaction then you should be able to give yourself over completely to your partner and trust they will make you feel good.
If the person doing the massage tends to wander off track you can always remind them to pay attention to your responses. If they are using warm oil you should be feeling some wonderful soothing moving motions with their hands having continued contact with your body.
This should feel like you both have a rhythm going so the partner getting the massage begins to respond to the rather of your hands. Keep your eyes on their face so you will see if you are causing some pain. This is meant to be a pleasuarbale experience so you need to take all of the time you and your partner requires getting to that pleasure point.